by Nur Anis Suhaimi

December 4, 2010

Shifting Gear


I am 23, and I have yet to be married :P

I am in the mood to write about marriages and weddings, because I am attending one tomorrow. 

The wedding of my two Kembara seniors, Awie and Kak Lin. They are 26 I guess, and this is the picture of them during the solemnisation last week.

Rumah Kak Lin kat Terengganu
Today itself is the wedding ceremony of my other two Kembara seniors, Pian and Kak Zam. Kak Zam is my TEYL Cohort 2 senior and Pian is now 28. 




This is their pre wedding picture. Sangat jeles lah ye, photoshoot ikut jiwa :D


Jiwa luar pintu
And this was during their solemnisation. Memang klass la kapel nih!

Who would resist a grand wedding ceremony? If sponsored I mean :P
I wish both of the newly-wedded couples’ happiness and harmony all along their marriages!

The question is: When will I get married? Hahahahaha. 

I seriously have no idea as yet, except for I don’t want it to exceed 30. Hihi :D 

Yeah I have a partner of my choice, and he could be of any girl's dream boy! He has been really wonderful, but yeah, world works the weirdest way. Anything can happen, I just hope it is for the better, Insha Allah.

When I receive wedding invitations from my friends, I know that they are just bold enough to bring about probably the most significant shift in their lives, that is to be married to somebody.

I doubt my own confidence or even readiness to be a wife, considering my age, my sense of responsibility, and my sense of attachment to my parents. I can't quite see myself not 'under the siege' of my father. I still get nagged for waking up late and stuff like that. Will my father still nag me when I am married? He should start adjusting and getting use to that you know, he has never been for like what, 23 years?

But I will surely miss that, hell yeah! 

Ok, just now I was nagging about getting married. I mean, at the age of 23. I have friends who got married at 23, and some of them even at 22 and 21. Wow right? 

It's kind of funny when to think back. My friends that I meant; we grew up together, we shared the same awful Dewan Makan food since we were 13, we stayed up all night chatting, we shared the same bed, we went through a lot together. And now, they are married? And what am I now? Single. Woot woot! :D

Oh this is just my pathetic attempt to write. I suck big time. To cover the suck-ness, lets put picture some more :)

Hajar & Hubby: Earliest to marry: 16th April 2008


Hanafi & Wife: 8th August 2008 (I attended this one just before I went off to Gunung Stong!)


Sabeelah & Hubby: 27th June 2009


Najibah & Hubby: 14th February 2010


Nazira & Hubby: 31st July 2010


Izyani & Hubby: 16th September 2010


Dalila & Hubby: 22nd November 2010


Getting married:

Jannah: 19th December 2010.


And they are all 23.


Young and wild :D


But oh, this one's even wilder, and bolder:


They are 20 !


Selamat Pengantin Baru Hani. Sorry I can't make it to Johor. I will surely miss you in court!

P/S:

Kawan2.

Saya doakan kamu semua bahagia ke anak cucu. Saya akan rindu zaman anak dara bersama anda semua. Saya pasti kamu jua merinduinya! :D